Background of Work: Unless the senses of the body are numbed or inhibited, in most cases and for most humans, the body will respond to a natural sexual stimulus, whether you want, like, or consent to it.
First of all, let's talk about natural sexual stimuli. Natural sexual stimuli refer to the kinds of cues -visual, auditory, emotional, contextual, or sensory- that instinctively or automatically trigger sexual arousal in humans, often shaped by biology, evolution, and early learning. While everyone is unique and influenced by personal experiences, research has revealed some general patterns across biological males and females.
Generally, men's sexual essence is always attracted to its energetic reciprocal: a man with a masculine essence will be attracted to anything or anyone with a feminine essence; a feminine man will be attracted to anything or anyone with a masculine essence; a balanced man will be attracted to anything or anyone with a balanced essence. Basically, anything or anyone that looks, smells, or makes a man feel, as his energetic reciprocal or polar coordinate, and as relating to his essence and core of his origin, can arouse his mind and body sexually. That aside, men tend to show more specific and genital-targeted arousal to visual sexual cues, often aligned with their sexual orientation. For example:
* Visual cues (Body parts: face, breasts, genitals, hips, waist-to-hip ratio, or perhaps especially nudity, sexual acts)
* Sounds (of anything exuding feminine energy: music, nature, sex or female pleasure)
* Youth, radiance and fertility indicators (Features like clear skin, and breast development signal youth and fertility and can send waves of feminine energy the direction of a man)
* Novelty (From a gene-spreading perspective, new partners signals to a man more reproductive opportunity; new challenge, new projects)
* Dominance/submission roles, depending on preference
Culling from the idea of David Deida, about 80 percent of all men have a more masculine sexual essence. These men, of whom you are or most people you know are probably among, are attracted to all things feminine. Not just feminine women, but anything with feminine energy, anything which is radiant, alive, somewhat elusive, enlivening, relaxing, and moving. Feminine energy captures the minds and bodies of men. Music, beer, nature, women, money, "success", they are all forms of feminine energy. There's nothing wrong with you or these men. This attraction is normal and only natural, and also healthy.
When a man in his masculine core feels the radiance of feminine energy through his mind and body, the action he chooses to take is a different topic. The primary focus of this topic is the boundary or difference between being sexually aroused and having sex. They are two different things. Intimacy, through sex, is a choice between two people (I must add, married people) who want to commit to loving and serving one another; whereas, as per our topic, arousal non concordance is a choiceless natural flow of energy between a man's masculine core and feminine energy, wherever it may be encountered.
As a man with a masculine core (or feminine core), a woman, or anything exuding energy that is your polar opposite, will send a chill down your body, whether you like, want or consent to it. It's a natural flow, and it's healthy for you and for the progress of humanity. You have not sinned nor done anything wrong. But afterwards, the thoughts you have or the action(s) you take are your business, and you must own such responsibility.
As you live life and encounter people, you will get such chills. Embrace it. Enjoy it. Breathe fully and do not resist it. Don't stare at her, that's indulgence. Don't even interact with her if you do not intend to commit to anything. Just live in the moment and allow the feeling to wash off through your body.
My advice to reasonable and responsible women is this: you are too innocent and do not recognise the masculine man your feminine energy is particularly appealing to. Evolution has made it so that, from a reproductive, gene-spreading, and bonding perspective, men have biologically ingrained tendencies to very easily notice the way you look, walk, talk, and from the drip of your personality, be sexually aroused and desire you. Live your life because there is nothing you can do. Just don't look naked. And the next part on this topic is about you.
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