Have you ever heard people say a prayer with these words: "Lord, remember me, and do my own too"? (This is a Nigerian expression, but you can think of a similar phrase in your own language.)
I want you to know that the basis of our desire to be remembered by God is actually very important and should never be relegated to just a prayer for help and assistance.
You know, I mostly say and solemnly believe, based on scripture, that our heart contributes to and is held accountable for the many thoughts we think and decisions we make in any area of our lives. When we pray, what is our motive? What drives us to pray? especially concerning God's intervention in the natural world and in physical things? If we can truthfully and honestly answer this question, then we can know if we deserve a response from God.
Again... get the context.
It's a perfect thing to kickstart a thing or two, with the aim of achieving great results. Building and establishing something are challenging phases in a person's life.
We notice that many people, especially young people who had kick-started one project or another, are currently not on that path. I advise that sometimes you've got to sit and run a check on your life from time to time in order to have a proper analysis of where you've been, where you are, and where you're going.
Looking back, you might count the numerous things you've begun and never completed. The reason isn't because you had no drive or intention to bring that idea to reality or become what you had pictured in your mind, but you've probably been distracted by other ephemerals. For example, there's a constant buzz about financial sources here and there, and we're mostly tempted to check them out, losing focus on what we had in mind to do and where we ought to be. Get back on track; that's my only advice.
Restrategize and pursue until there's a performance that cannot be ignored.
"I knew he would make it."
These are words we sometimes hear from people who knew nothing about the life of the person in question and have been left behind or weren't wise enough to do what was needed to be a part of the story. (And yes, everyone's path isn't the same) I say this with absolute assurance. Why? I strongly believe that people who recognize prospect in a person:
Will position themselves to be part of the next big thing that evolves through this person—not for selfish reasons, but for relevance, contribution, and the growth of both parties.
Will work towards becoming so good that they will match the future achievements of the person in question.
What I'm saying in a nutshell is, don't just wait to proclaim the vision on the day of its manifestation. Instead, either become a part of it and join its building, or build yourself to become so valuable that you'll have no regrets when you encounter people who once walked and dined with you.
I hope you get the context.
Do the best you can to bring light and value to whatever you do, wherever you do it, and whenever you get to do it.
The real definition of proper service isn't just what you put into the work, but the heart with which you do it. What drives you to do what you do determines how effectively you have contributed to a vision as an act of service.
Serve in a way that you will be needed and remembered if you ever decide to leave.
Serve effectively, serve heartily, serve properly.
One of my eternal regret will be finally getting to eternity or even aging to point where another man probably has to lead me, and realizing I could have done more, and more was given that I never acted on.
I believe there's always more to what's currently seen in a vision, and yeah, there are factors that influence fulfillment, could be resources, time and all that. But there's also always a window to get by all these and get to accomplishment.
Do more. Get as close as you can. Be fulfilled.
In your younger, formative years, many people will look down on you, and you may even be considered a nuisance or be rejected. This is especially true during your growth or building stage, when no one knows your true identity or purpose. Both the young and the old will take you for granted, though a small percentage might see your potential. Don't be surprised if the people closest to you are the ones who treat you in this unthinkable way and do certain unthinkable things to you... It happens.
Sometimes, this is the price you pay to grow. It's not just because you're doing something great, but also because great people learn a lot of lessons that shape them. Humiliation and disrespect are part of that process.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is trying to respond to everything that's said about you, whether behind your back or to your face. Don't try to pull strings to make others pay for what they've said or done to you, especially when their goal is to tarnish your image or make your efforts seem worthless.
It's all part of the process. When you face these challenges, smile and push forward. There is a component that reveals the greatness in people, and that component is time.
Arigato
Having explored life a bit, especially concerning business and work, I've come to emphasize a crucial point: never be so busy that you neglect learning.
Sometimes, with our current knowledge and skills, we might feel like we've "arrived," especially after landing a new high-paying job or a promotion that brings in more money. However, if you're going to stay relevant and valuable, most times, you will or you should learn to say no to certain gigs or jobs if they become so demanding that they prevent you from developing yourself further. Prioritizing this self-development will make you more valuable in the long run.
Keep learning, and never exchange it for anything."
Hi there. It's been a while since I wrote something here, and getting back feels like I've been left far behind. Unfortunately, I've been caught up with so many corporate activities while trying to create a system of balance and settle properly into a new environment.
The past few months have been filled with a lot of what life has to offer: the bittersweet experiences, getting to learn something new, being spurred on to become better, and seeing the world, nature, and the expression of people's gifts in building things. I've been exposed to a new phase of life filled with people of different beliefs, characters, and values. To top it all off, concerning my faith, I've been exposed to Christians who have beliefs opposite to what we stand for according to scripture, and all of that.
Honestly, my faith has been shaken a bit, not because of people, but because I'm trying to figure things out and put them in place (which I am actively participating with God to fix). But all in all, I am consciously adapting, intentionally cutting out complaints even in the midst of difficult situations, and looking at the brighter side of life. I'm carefully associating with people with absolute scrutiny and making my stand clear on matters that concern my beliefs, values, and faith (because I'm not ashamed of Christ). I'm also putting strategic plans in place to be better, create the impact I'm made for, and most importantly, praying as much as I can. I don't mean to bore you, but...
Here's the summary of all this: The Lord is good, and this is the story of my life for the past few months of absence and silence.
Arigato
Individuals may have their differences, stemming from their culture, upbringing, and the models they were given to learn from and follow. Yet, there is always good in people.
The practice of discriminating against individuals based on preconceived notions about how they are "from around there" is a current tool of division within nations and communities.
I'll see you around. Bye.
Sometimes, there is a difficulty to tell where the path is leading, and even more the ability to preserve till the end of the path. But a thing I discovered is, many uncertainties in the lives of people, became the reason why they built so much strength to develop great things.
Twas in these moments of uncertainty, that they thought, prayed, sought counsel, subjected themselves to rigorous learnings, in order to come to light and acquire the necessary intelligence to break into something great and profound.
There's an experience of joy when certainty comes, when finally there's an assurance. But untill then, keep pressing, keep watching out for those hints and signs of the clouds changing, keep doing what needs to be done and if possible, do extra. Certainty comes.
Motivation you think… well
more than that.
Aim for discipline, not motivation.Motivation is just a feeling.Discipline is a habit.Discipline is the key to success.99% of the success I have experienced has been directly correlated with my ability to act despite how I feel.
That’s why when people say, “How do you stay motivated?”The answer is, “I don’t.”
I don’t rely on my feelings to get the job done. If anything, I can only count on my feelings to delay the job from getting done.
Feelings are fleeting and often illogical. Relying on a sensation to accomplish anything will leave you inconsistent and ultimately deter you from success.
The key is to build your “Get shit done when I feel like shit” muscle. Because that’s the truth, every ounce of your being will want to avoid or excuse… but you do it anyway.Things I tell myself to build the GSD muscle…
“If you’re going to do it eventually, you may as well do it now.” “I don’t need to feel good to stick with the plan.”
“If I do what’s hard now, the later will be easy.”
In December 1937, during a football match at Stamford Bridge in London between Chelsea FC and Charlton FC, the game was abandoned in the 60th minute due to heavy fog.
Unfortunately, Charlton FC goalkeeper Sam Bartram was unaware that the match had been stopped and continued to guard his goal for another fifteen minutes. He did not hear the referee's whistle because of the noise from the crowd behind him. Believing that his teammates were attacking the opposing goal, he stood with outstretched arms, fully focused on protecting his goal amidst the dense fog.
It was only fifteen minutes later when the field police approached him and informed him that the match had been abandoned fifteen minutes earlier. Sam Bartram, deeply saddened by this, famously said:
" HOW SAD THAT MY FRIENDS FORGOT ME WHEN I WAS GUARDING THEIR GATE."
Life's game is much like this. We diligently and supportively guard the goals of many around us, but when the situation becomes foggy, some may abandon us.
There will be moments when you'll lose the drive for that vision, there'll be moments when it looks uncertain, most importantly there'll be mistakes made that you will never be able to correct and will just wish you could turn the hands of the clock, but it's practically impossible.
In these moments, hold God so dear, that you include him in everything like you've never done before, take a break, refocus, rethink, speak with minds that will bring you the necessary things you need and refire again.
Sometimes the way we wish things would go, will not go that way, sometimes all you just have to do is Trust. Trust. Trust.
